>thousands of ABDL RP discord servers but they're all basically dead.
absolute fact, but you don't need a server if you're just DMing the rp,
> there are a ton of people who are too afraid to actually RP.
deffently, but that's why you find a person who isn't, finding people on it is quite hard, but it's a good place for keeping in touch with those you have found. I had someone who was like that too afraid to rp, so I stoped talking to them.
Guess you just need someone to want the focus to be on the transformation or regression, else you roll into story tropes and in those you tippicly have a reason for regression