You barely ever hear people talking negatively about shipping. What you hear much more often is shippers shoving their autism everywhere, just like furries. Also, I'd be willing to bet that most shippers stop shipping once they have their first romantic relationship.
Also, I said maybe I get porn of a fictional character. I understand the instinct response of horniness, and that some people are not refined enough to control it. But does shipping get you horny? What need does it fulfill? Is it a creative exercise? I get creative exercises, but why do they become fixated on specific pairings? What would drive someone to give a single shit about if Knuckles fucks Rouge? Especially if it's not even in an actual work, and only in your head. Yet you see people so addicted to shipping them that it destroys their lives and they throw their moms.
Also, what do you think cope means, other than just being a halfchan meme? Clearly it's supposed to refer to someone in denial of some fact that would be painful to them. Why would someone else being a shipper, and that somehow being logical, be painful? I'm just expressing my sheer confusion at this particular form of autism. I understand many other forms of autism, but not this one.